Are you ready to take control of your life so that you can be in line with who you truly are?

As a Cycle Breaker Harry guides individuals to break their limiting beliefs and old patterns in terms of identity, sexuality, pressure and confidence so that they can live a free and truthful life.

By helping his clients decondition the deeply deep-rooted societal conditioning, his clients begin to connect to their true selves and values as never before.

His deepest passion lies in helping expand the collective consciousness on sexuality, self-love and intimacy within oneself. By being nakedly open about his own journey and sharing his knowhow and ‘life-hacks’ on breaking cycles Harry helps transform his clients from where they presently are, to where it is they wish to be.

If deep down you have always had a feeling life has much more to offer, then following the guidelines you have been given and you are ready to embrace yourself for who you truly are…

The Cycle Breaker Foundation is waiting for you.

My personal journey

Today as a 30-something year old I am a Mentor, Speaker and Author but most of all a life enthusiast who grabs life by the balls. This hasn’t always been the case. Since a very young age I felt discomforts and silences within my family of which I did not feel part of. Already then, I had different values and beliefs. The true heart connection between my parents was inexistent. Thus, relations between people and therefore the related questions about being who you truly are, sexuality and identity have always intrigued me during my journey. I could not change the situation I was in; an unstable family situation, an extremely abusive mother and a father who did not have any balls to take action. Well actually he took action. He saved himself. 

I ended up in a very dark place and I had no other choice then to change myself to fit in my family, society and even this oh so called ‘supportive’ LGBT community. I could not be that problem child anymore. I could not be  that victim any longer… So I became that confident, unemotional corporate pussy fucker who deep down had a better connection with men, not a sexual connection. More a connection in the sense of being in the company of men. Because still today so many people are blinded by the thought that every gay guy sucks cock and has a feather up his arse.

I fled form my fears, doubts and pains and tottered around but they followed me across the globe. I did not know which way to go but at some point I believed that prostituting myself was the way to go. I was looking for shelter, understanding and (self)-love. It is by facing my fears, my past and standing up for myself that I grabbed life by the balls… The only way of becoming authentically naked and truthful towards myself. I realised that I was more than a label or how people perceived me.I started believing I was worth being someone and that I could support people. The thought of making a difference in someone else’s life one day, gave me hope to survive and to break that endless cycle I was in. What I could do, so can you.

I gave up my ‘rewarding’ well-paid job in Amsterdam so that I could truly do what I am meant to do in this world. Supporting others in breaking their cycles. Because once again the biggest success in life is what drives you from the heart and what makes you feel good. I see it as occupying the greatest job in the world: Living that truthful life by supporting people like you who speak a similar language and who are ready for change. 

I decided to write all my learnings during my journey down in ‘The Naked Truth’ so that other could grab life by the balls also. I realized that I wanted to move beyond the ‘box’ and transcend time and space with my teachings, so I decided to take my biggest passion online where I could continue to travel, teach and expand my ability to reach more people in a broader way. I also created the Cycle Breaker Foundation so that people who are open for change and authenticity could connect with each-other. 

It is by talking openly, exposing my vulnerabilities and sharing my own trial and terrors without any shame that I have been able to guide many people within their journey. They get naked because I did too. By putting my years of knowledge, my personal experience and my self-developed tools at your disposal, I am confident you will be able to open up and invest in yourself. 

Life is only lived when you love yourself and when you can be in line with who you truly are, and this forever.

My message to you

It is all about how to model honesty and transparency and to show people that there’s nothing greater in life than being yourself without putting a label on it. Let’s start your new journey and take you off the road of a hidden you. I might not change the world, but I might have the key to change your world. You’ve come too far to give up on who you truly are. Your moment has come to live your truthful life. I am with you. I will do all I can to help you save time, energy and most of all, yourself. I only have one burning desire: to transmit that happy feeling of being a free and truthful person with an open mind in his head and inner rest and self-love in his heart.


I am Harry a Cycle Breaker Mentor and Motivational Speaker. I guide people to discover their true self, their real ambition and to use their full potential. I support individuals get from where they are (as a person) to where they want to be(come). I use my background and knowledge in breaking cycles, my own trials and terrors and life-experience so that my clients can gain confidence and power to live that truthful life they deserve. But also get more clarity within their vision to what matters to them and that direction they want to take within their journey.



I am Harry Trotter
Location: Amsterdam
Company reg. nr. 71687998
VAT nr. 562.168.709 BO1